Custer takes a bride: A Stevensburg honeymoon

Most married men-if honest about it-will admit their good fortune to have wed women who are better human beings than themselves. (I confess.) This marital dynamic proved uniquely valid when George Armstrong Custer won the hand of Elizabeth Clift Bacon, one of the most persevering wives in American military history. It is of note that 144 years ago this month, "Autie and Libbie" honeymooned in Stevensburg.

Spending part of his boyhood in Monroe, Mich., George "Autie" Custer went off to West Point where the undisciplined cadet graduated last in the class of 1861. Advancing rapidly in the Civil War, Lt. Custer functioned as a key aide and received high marks for his role at the Battle of Brandy Station, June 9, 1863.
Appointed in late June 1863 as a brigadier at the age of 23-the youngest general in the Union army-Custer received command of the Michigan Cavalry Brigade. He then effectively led his "Wolverines" in the Gettysburg Campaign. Incontestably, Custer was a superb cavalry officer. Further, his men adored him simply because he led them into battle.

On Sept. 13, 1863, General Custer received a slight leg wound at the Battle of Culpeper Court House. Granted leave, the opportunistic Custer traveled west and audaciously courted Monroe's most beautiful belle, the 22-year old, Libbie Bacon.

Judge Daniel Bacon had no desire to see his beloved only child marry an intemperate soldier of modest roots, especially one known to favor "excessive alcohol and gambling." Now a nationally heralded officer, however, Custer convinced both Judge Bacon and Libbie he had given up alcohol (true) and gambling-untrue; he never quit gambling. As usual, Custer succeeded in capturing his objectives, and vows were exchanged on Feb. 9, 1864 in the "most splendid wedding ever seen in the state," according to a reconciled Judge Bacon.

Departing on their honeymoon, Custer escorted his bride to West Point, New York City and Washington where huge receptions awaited them. An attentive Custer never left Libbie's side, and her own early devotion to him was evident: "Every other man seems so ordinary beside my own particular star."

She also referred to Custer as "my dear life hero, my boy general."

While in Washington, Custer received urgent telegrams from Army of the Potomac winter headquarters at Brandy Station directing him to report immediately for a "secret" assignment. Libbie pleaded not to be left behind, and the couple rode the train to Brandy Station in late February.

Soon arriving by coach at Stevensburg, Libbie was made comfortable at "Clover Hill," the beautiful (then, not now), church-appearing home of Jack Barbour-Barbour was not in residence. Custer quickly departed for a raid toward Charlottesville on Feb. 28 and returned to Clover Hill on March 2, where he determined to provide his wife an "army honeymoon." In honor of his bride, Custer re-named Clover Hill, "Camp Libbie."

For entertainment, Libbie was often hoisted into a "silver harnessed coach" and escorted to Mount Pony where she toured the army's main signal station. From atop the summit, Libbie wrote her parents that she observed the "white tents of the Army…stretched far as eye could see." With her coach accompanied by mounted escort, Libbie also attended "six-course dinners" hosted by Custer's superiors at Rose Hill and at the Dr. Daniel Green farm near Brandy.

After spending just short of a month at Camp Libbie, Custer secured a leave and took his wife on Gen. Ulysses Grant's "special train" to Washington where their "official honeymoon" continued. In mid-April, Custer deposited his wife in a Washington boarding house and he returned to the army where the "Overland Campaign" soon began.

Libbie much enjoyed Washington where she met President Lincoln, commenting to her parents that he appeared to be the "most painfully careworn…man I ever saw."

Libbie lived in Washington throughout the remainder of the war and later followed her husband west to the plains. Following his death at the Little Big Horn, Libbie survived him by 57 years and "devoted the rest of her days to defending and gilding his memories." They are buried together at West Point. One is certain Libbie never forgot her "Stevensburg honeymoon." 

Clark "Bud" Hall is the leading authority on Culpeper's role in the Civil War. E-mail .