What seniors fear the most has changed in the past four decades

Forty years ago, the number one concern raised by older adults was fear of dying. Because of advances in technology and medical care, this is no longer the number one concern. Now, senior citizens fear losing their independence and moving into a nursing home more than death according to an August 2007 research study “Aging in Place in America” commissioned by Clarity and The EAR Foundation.

Peter Bell, president of the National Aging in Place Council stated: “These findings tell us that, above all else, older Americans value their ability to live independently. As a society, we must find ways to help our parents and grandparents live their latter years at home. We must make aging in place a national priority and a reality for older Americans.”

A 2002 Elder Needs survey conducted by Aging Together echoes these results. Of people age 60 and older, 27 percent reported the need for assistance with daily living tasks with 80% of that assistance coming from family and friends. Twenty-four percent of older people live alone and may not have support if needed. The survey further indicated that when assistance is needed, there is a strong preference for and reliance on home care.

Adult children of older adults also are extremely concerned about their parent’s well-being if they are forced to move out of their home. They fear their parent’s quality of life will deteriorate and they will be sad, lonely, scared, or, even worse, mistreated if they have to move. 

It is important for seniors and their children to openly discuss these fears. There are options to help seniors remain at home and effectively address these concerns. New technologies are available that help monitor health and safety, such as sensors and life alert systems. Home care agencies are available to help seniors with their everyday tasks and much needed companionship. Aging Together works locally through the Healthy Culpeper Senior/Adult Committee to mobilize resources so more people can grow older here. Efforts are in place to increase volunteerism by and for seniors. Work is being done to enhance transportation within and outside of the county. Caregiver supports and training are being developed. Health, wellness and safety resources are being expanded. But there is still much to do and many new ideas to build from.

The Age Wave tsunami is coming. There is no doubt that the shift will be toward people “living the years” versus “counting the years.” Furthermore, there is a shift to “aging in place.” Get involved locally and help make Culpeper County a safe place for everyone to age. Join the Healthy Culpeper Senior Adult Committee at their meetings the first Thursday of each month, 10 a.m. at the Reformation Lutheran Church. Or visit agingtogether.org to learn more.

Karl Karch is a member of the Healthy Culpeper Senior Adult Committee, a Certified Senior Advisor and local franchise owner of Home Instead Senior Care, a licensed home care organization providing personal care, companionship and home helper services.
This article is from the Culpeper County Team of Aging Together, working to support the county’s older citizens. For more information call Jenny Biche at 540) 825-7615 ext 2225 or visit the website at http://www.agingtogether.org.